Question…

What is a good “safe” word?

Answer…

The classic safe word is “RED”. It isn’t a word you might say in conversation or as a reaction to pain. Your safe word needs to be something you can remember in a stressful situation. Something short and simple is my advice.

My safe word is “scarlet”. i have never needed to use it. i only play with partners i know and trust. i play with partners who clearly know my limits and boundaries before we play. If i am concerned about something, i ask if we may talk, please.