I read a post by someone and feel the need to expound on this subject.

Mistress Lilianne and I have talked about our “liking” of great clothes.

Both of us had less as children and made promises to ourselves that when we were responsible for ourselves we would look the way we feel about ourselves.

Thus the clothes and care in putting them together. The grooming (hair, nails, body) care, the clothes, it represents to us loving ourselves. It is a ritual of care and love we give ourselves because at a point in time as young children we were needy for that, and we promised ourselves that we would not be needy when we had control of that part of our lives.

Great looking clothes don’t always mean we spent a lot of money. We both are blessed to receive gifts from people that want to show they care. That we care for ourselves and love ourselves is an inner light that people see more than the clothes. It makes the clothes look better. The same outfit on another person would not look the same if they did not feel as yummy about themselves in a very important, balanced, self-confident, secure way.

Judging. It swings in all ways.

Judging a person as shallow because they look good/chic and not bothering to see what substance they are as a person inside is still as prejudiced as dismissing a person who is neat/clean but not wearing designer clothes.

I am guilty of giving money to homeless people, down on their circumstances people that I notice are bathed and as clean as they can be. I figure they found some way to care for themselves at the salvation army or ymca or something. I have few times run into these people later, and they have some job. People that care for themselves will better their circumstances. It is a natural progression.

I understand the point of someone making a big to do about how nice their clothes are, being a pompous ass, yes, who wants to be around a person like that – but a pompous ass with misplaced values on having “things” rather than placing value on how he can make a difference is a whole other bad smelling dish than someone that always looks good.

Well put together people ROCK, on many levels.

I would catch this for free while it’s up for you:

Robin fucks the postman

Here’s a collection of my work

FreeOnes

Well, that should tide over the Robin Pachino fans for a minute or two…..

Step Off for the parade was 10:30 am. We were entry #46, so our wait wasn’t very long. We marched down Ocean Avenue from Lindero Avenue ( well, a tad more because we were stacked up in “staging”) to Alamitos Avenue.

TigerSD took my reins dressed in her dashing Canadian Mountie leathers. **swoon**

It was so fabulous, the parade crowd was into it, I had a fellow Pony to trot/canter with, pics taken everywhere. Standing up for diversity. Yes!

I stayed at a new hotel in Dallas this time, the Fairmont.

This hotel was on the edge of the Art district, the Historical part of Dallas and the downtown business center. It was only 4 blocks to the same Chase Bank I went to before, but I approached it from the other side. It was interesting to walk around these blocks of downtown. It also made me realize how little I get out when I am working unless someone takes me out, how little time I have to walk and explore.

While walking to the bank, I noticed trolley signs, wires and tracks. Since I grew up in San Francisco, I have a fondness for trolleys. I took the trolley for several blocks and stopped at a Starbuck’s, got coffee and took a different trolley back. It was fun. I have no idea where I went, some other district in the northeast part of Dallas with lots of bars and restaurants as far as I could see.

I had an excellent time in Dallas. It is a city where I have a sponsor. A sponsor is a gentleman that always sees me when I visit a certain city and books at least four hours of my time which covers my basic costs. These sponsors are why I visit some cities more than others. What I love about seeing a gentleman over and over for extended time is that our relationship grows, our foundation of trust expands and we have sufficient time together to explore the D/s dynamic and areas of BDSM play that make me cringe, but I am willing to try to do my best. There aren’t a lot of types of play that make me cringe. Some of this play is being in rope or bondage for extended time or bound completely helpless, or electrical play or sensory deprivation. Extended time together also means we can explore wax play more fully or sploshing. These messy types of play require extensive setup and cleanup.

I love my life. Thank you Dallas.

I will be leaving to set up the LA Pony and Critter Club booth this morning.  I’m very excited about it this year.  We shall be Interactive.  We will have the Agility Equipment for Puppies and Critters to run through in our booth.

We will also have these very cool Pony Play Flag logo or LAPACC flag logo stainless steel (No BAPA), made in the USA, reusable water bottles for sale – $15.00 each.

I have printed out some 8 x 10’s for fans to buy and will sign for free. $10 each.

Posters,

16 x 24 $30

22 x 32 $50

40 x 27 in frame $200

All sales profits are for LA Pony and Critter Events costs or Burning Man Pony Express camp costs.

LA Pony and Critter Club  http://www.laponiesandcritters.com/

DomConLA  http://www.domconla.com/

Went to the Meet & Greet last night at DomConLA.  I was sitting at the Lounge enjoying my *one allowed * Lemon Drop, when I heard the lovely Lady next to me telling her friend about a client that called yesterday afternoon.  The word “Doctor” was the flag that caught my ears.  He had called back to leave a threatening message after she refused to drive to Anaheim to meet him for a session without some payment upfront since she did not know him.  I asked her if this was yesterday afternoon?  “Yes” was the reply.  “Was it a 714 number?”  “Yes.” was the answer.  We shot out our phones and compared.  He had called me 5 minutes after leaving his Voice Message.  Same Spiel.  I will filling out a form on Verifyhim.com this morning.

It is a small world.

For the Providers:

This man says he is a Doctor.  He has 24 hours free and wants to spend 12 of them overnight with the provider.  He offers more than your published rate.  He does not offer references nor will pay a deposit.  He wants you to dress in all leather with leather gloves on a day that is 102 degrees.  He might change this story but he is simply stringing you on the phone wasting your time, trying to find a point at which either you say yes and drive to a non-existent client or he prefers to get you to the point of saying “Goodbye”.  His fetish is dominating you by the mere fact that you must answer your phone to do business and then wasting your time.

For the Gents:

This type of man is why we don’t answer “Private Numbers”, we like to get to the point of your call and not chat about this and that.  We ask if you are a member of a screening service web site, such as date-check or preferred 411.  We ask for a deposit if we have never met you before.

I love my life and I love my job.  One bad apple does ruin it.  I do find it interesting that Ms Chaps and I sat next to each other the next night.  I was able to assure her she is not alone in having some jerk harass her.  We toasted all our fabulous clients and how much we appreciate them.