1. PHONE NUMBERS ON YOUR BILL (1): Avoid ODD phone numbers from appearing on your cell phone bill that your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/partner can see. Get a TracFone : http://www.tracfone.com – Found at many convenience stores for $0-$20 you can get a cell phone with out a bill or contract. You then purchase minutes to load on your phone. Then keep this phone at the office and don’t use it to call your wife/girlfriend/boyfriend/partner.

2. PHONE NUMBERS ON YOUR BILL (2): Stop receiving paper bills. Most cell phone providers offer PAPERLESS billing. Opt in for this feature and use an email address that your wife doesn’t have access to.

3. CLEAR YOUR PHONE HISTORY: Get in the habit of clearing out your phone call history. Most phones have this capability. Some even allow you to remove just the phone numbers you want to clear out of your history. If you must clear your entire history, do it immediately after your done for the day, then make a few phone calls to co-workers and family, this way you have a history in the phone and if the wife looks it doesn’t look suspicious like an empty history would appear. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, CLEAR OUT YOUR TEXT MESSAGES!

4. LEAVE CLEAR INSTRUCTIONS ON VOICEMAIL: Avoid an unwanted call at the wrong time! If you have made some inquiring calls and left a voicemail, be sure to indicate when it is ok to call or text you back.

5. TURN OFF THE PHONE: Avoid an unwanted call at the wrong time! If you have made some inquiring calls during the day turn off your phone or put it on silent before you go in the house.

6. CREDIT / DEBIT CARDS (1): Avoid using your credit card or debit card. This is a paper trail.

7. CREDIT / DEBIT CARDS (2): If you must use a card, stop receiving paper bills. Most credit cards offer PAPERLESS billing. Opt in for this feature and use an email address that your wife doesn’t have access to.

8. CREDIT / DEBIT CARDS (3): Opt for a Visa Gift card. You can find these at many convenience stores. When you go shopping at store you normally shop buy one and throw away the receipt. This way it won’t stand out on your bank statement.

9. CREDIT / DEBIT CARDS (4): Get an EPassport card – https://www.epassporte.com/ – You can get these online and charge them up from your bank account. There’s no paper statement from E-Passport and you can use this as an ATM card or a credit card.

10. PAPER TRAILS: Get a PO Box – these are fairly inexpensive. Then you can send your bills you do not want her to see to this PO Box.

11.  LEAVE CLEAR INSTRUCTIONS REGARDING FURTHER COMMUNICATION:  Give me an email your wife doesn’t know or tell me if I may text you OR NOT.  I follow directions.  I obey.  I’m really good at this.  Seriously.  I text and email if I am returning to your area only if I have permission to do that so that you have the first opportunity to make an appointment.  I love seeing a gentlemen again and again.

These are just helpful tidbits of which you can ignore, use some or use all.