Communicating what you are seeking is so very vital to having your vision a reality.  

I envison a secretary (heels, seamed stocking, tight skirt, blouse, hair up) that I take to task for not doing her job as well as I’d like.  I humilate her, and punish her, discipline her to empower her to do a better job.

I envision hiring a secretary to be my sex slave on business trips.  I explain that if she wants this job there are unusual requirements and I want to know if she is up to the task.

I envision that I have found my administrative assistant has taken money from the company and now will be my sex slave so that I don’t call the law.

These are all secretary scenes, the wardrobe and look is about the same but the nuances of the scenes are different, they have very different flavors.  Wanting a job, needing work, I will be very willing to jump hoops for you; having been caught doing something bad, I might struggle, not be compliant at first.  The first scene is for the folk who loves to discipline, loves to be in authority, hand out the shaming, give the spanking.  

Different things turn on different folk.

I love dressing up office perfect.  I love the body fitting skirt and blouse, the smooth, silky stockings and stylish heels.  I love having my hair up, so it can be taken down, messed up then pulled back out of the way.  I love being restrained, tied up.  Maybe struggling to get away and you tease me, taunt me because I have been working late, and you know I do this, took advantage of this, and now you want the office safe code and if I don’t give it up, well, there will be consequences.

This is a very romantisized capture scene, a scene of medium struggling, realizing I am securely captured and being taken.  This is my go to fantasy.  It is what always makes me wet and I enjoy all the feelings that come with it.

Your fantasy will make you excited, make you turned on.

This is play, pretend adult play, involving imagination, suspending reality.  A lot of props are NOT needed.  

I find a partner willing to share this intimate secret of what turns them on fascinating.  I am honored to be trusted. It is my pleasure to play with you.  I am a safe space to come to.